Our 2-year-old follows the dog everywhere. Up until now, the dog has been tolerant, but I can see that the dog's patience is wearing thin and he is beginning to snap at our child. What can we do?
Understand that your dog only has one means of expressing its displeasure. It's attempting to warn you to do something. Now, it's up to you to do it, fast.
If possible, offer your dog its own secluded place with a dog bed and some toys, somewhere your 2-year-old can't get to. When your toddler is on the rampage, and you can see your pup is losing patience, say, "Go to your room." Have some treats waiting on the dog bed; your dog has to know this is a safe refuge and not a punishment.
Although teaching a two-year-old etiquette isn't easy, begin to firmly say "no" when the child tugs at the dog's tail or ears. Explain, "make nice" and offer the dog treats as your toddler gently strokes the dog.
You shouldn't leave your child alone with the dog, but this doesn't mean they can't interact at all. In fact, the more positive interaction, the better. Teach your youngster the word "sit." You may have to repeat the command for it to be understood by the dog. When the dog complies, offer a reward. Hide 'n' seek is a great game; have your toddler hide and tell the dog "find." When the pooch succeeds, offer a biscuit.
If your dog's displeasure escalates, as evidenced by growling or baring teeth at any household member, get professional training help immediately.